http://arthanovena.blogspot.com: LOVE TO FRIENDS

No one who doesn't feel and have love, because love isn't just for boyfriend / girlfriend, but love can be to God, Family, and Friends. What is love? Love is an expression of affection to someone we love, through our words and our deeds as well.

I have many friends, but 6 people are familiar to me, 5 girls and 1 boy. They are Brilia, Gaby, Beatrix, Angel, Vio, and Andi . We are friends since high school more or less two years and until now. Can say they are my bestfriends and already regard as my second family.

I'm not the type of person who can express affection with the words "I LOVE YOU". But I express my love by deeds, for example : I try to be there when a friend took me, to visit a sick friend, giving my shoulder if my friend was crying, and always pray for my friend.

If it's one of our bestfriend's birthday, we usually give a surprise to our friend the small cake and gifts of our friends pleasure. That's a sign of our love for our friends.

We are friends not because of rich, handsome, beautiful, and smart people. But we are friends because we want to be friends and because of the sincere love.

So,because of the love that's sincere, when I had to be apart with my friends, it makes us very sad to be apart. We can't together like they used to be, and spend time together. But we realized that in every meeting there will be separation. Although we are far away, we are still friends and forever friends and keep in touch. Because we are confident we can meet again at a later time.

We need to known the difference between the love of a friend and the love a boyfriend / girlfriend.

If the love a friend is based on the heart, understanding sincere and not expecting anything in return, but the love of a boyfriend / girlfriend is based on love and lust, understanding and expecting a reply.

That is why when there are no ex-boyfriend / girlfriend around, we never heard one word which is called, "ex-friend" as the way it is.

I miss them so much :(